…to be 12 days away from the biggest day of your life.
It feels so strange to have an actual visible date on a calendar marking the day that your life will be changed forever; A countdown to the life-as-you-know-it coming to an end. I go through my everyday routine now thinking about each of the little things that will change in 12 days. “Will I ever have access to my bathroom sink again?” “What if I snore and no one’s ever told me?” “Where will I put my clothes?” “Will she be concerned that I sleep with a teddy bear named snuffles?” Just kidding about that last one… his name is actually giggles. I’ve learned that there are a few ways I can prepare for marriage and yet a world of ways I can’t. I’m seeing more and more God’s fingerprints all over this marriage thing in the sense that I can be wise and prepare as much as possible but at some point it’s time to just take a flying leap. I am overwhelmed that God went through 28 years of aligning two totally separate lives in completely different circumstances to meet in church on a Sunday morning only one seat apart. To think that He did all of that without my insight and my planning gives me hope that He has the next 28-plus years well thought out.
Any thoughts from you wise married folk? And single too?






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July 8, 2008 at 12:40 am
pastorb007
Oh yea, in 12 days your whole world will change. it’s going to be awesome!
July 8, 2008 at 1:51 am
Helen
Just remember that last thought when you are faced with the challenge all men are faced with…she said….but what she really meant was….
July 8, 2008 at 2:08 am
carolyn
get ready for your life to really start…. marriage is the best and you two are going to be great at it!!!
July 8, 2008 at 12:49 pm
Lisa
Always remember the 2 rules of Marriage
#1 She is always right
and # 2 if you forget refer to #1. LOL.
Love ya. You Guys will be fine.
I once heard that when we Marry we become one (I wonder who said that?) and You really do start to look alike.
July 9, 2008 at 3:05 am
mtoddo
Dude, let me just tell you as a veteran of marriage (almost 3 years now!) I don’t know half as much as some do. I do know all of what I know and what I know is this: marriage is a lot of things thrown together for Stephanie and I. The bad is mixed in with the good, and there’s a lot more good than bad (thank god). There was a huge transition period for me, and sometimes I still experience that. However, I’d never trade my marriage now for being single again, so enjoy your last few days of being single (within reason of course) but look forward to the awesomeness of marriage!
July 9, 2008 at 8:11 pm
Nana
So, after 39 years of marriage, I can firmly, confidently and with the voice of authority give this sage piece of advice…..always, always, always remember what Lisa said!!!!
July 10, 2008 at 3:27 pm
Lana Wood
I can concur with Nana and Lisa…as I am also a veteran of 39 years of marital bliss! Actually, if you just make Jennifer a great cup of coffee from fresh roasted beans every morning you will have it made!
July 14, 2008 at 1:34 am
Dot
Just be yourself, Matthew. After all you are the man she fell in love with. Don’t hold back, be open and honest in all things, pray together, laugh alot..be her best friend! . God brought you together and weall know…He don’t make junk!!! Luv ya!
July 16, 2008 at 4:48 am
Rachel Rowell
Big, HUGE piece of advice on what we women really want.
We don’t freakin’ really know most of the time…..LOL.
Seriously, get ready to enter the best days of your life. Marriage is amazing. You really will wonder how you ever survived when you were single. Treat her like a queen and she will he happy to make you her king. :0)
July 17, 2008 at 8:14 pm
Tim
3 rules:
1. An appliance is NOT a gift or a present, it is a purchase and should be considered as such.
2. Write the important days down and do not forget them!
3. Toilet paper rule: who knows where it goes, just keep buying and don’t say a word.
The rest of it is actually between you and her and God and everyone else is just an observer!
Love yuns